pig skin in Brunei. USAHAKAN TIA DEHHH..

oh believe me.. AKU BERSAMAK TODAY! reason? I just realised tempat ku menyimpan nail cutter ku apa.. ada three dots atu. sigh. kenapa kan tu? kenapa? gila bah dunia masa ani.. i really wish di Brunei ani strict on checking stuffs. i think i'm gonna buy new manicure set lah ni.. tsk tsk. oh well.. its time.. since all my 4 nail cutters tumpul menumpul sudah.

Anyway, please click on the link below to know further pasal pigskin ani.. people should know how it looks like and start thrashing your wardrobes NOW! LOL.
http://pustakaalghazali.wordpress.com/2009/05/31/cara-mengenal-pasti-barang-dari-kulit-babi/

and guess what.. one of Brunei's baby stuffs supplier ani.. tejumpa ku kasut baby.. KASUT BABY BAHHHHH.. kesian jua anak damit dari damit sudah kana kulit babi. mun indung nda pemerhatian.. nda jua tau tu? kesian eh. so be careful people. kasut baby sudah ada cematu.. lagi tah adults kali.

Musuh dan Sahabat Syaitan

Iblis Dengan Nabi Muhammad SAW.

Wahab bin Munabbih berkata: Allah telah menyuruh iblis datang kepada Nabi Muhammad SAW. untuk menjawab segala pertanyaan-pertanyaannya. Maka datanglah iblis berupa orang yang tua yang bertongkat dan ketika ditanya oleh Nabi SAW.

"Siapakah kamu?"

Jawabnya; "Iblis."

Nabi SAW. bertanya lagi; "Kenapakah kamu datang?".

Jawab iblis; "Allah menyuruhku datang kepadamu untuk menjawab segala pertanyaanmu."

Lalu Nabi Muhammad SAW bertanya; "Ya Mal'uun! berapa musuh-musuhmu dari ummatku?".

Jawab iblis; "Lima belas orang".

1. Engkau (Nabi Muhammad SAW).

2. Imam yang adil.

3. Orang kaya yang merendah diri.

4. Pedagang yang jujur [benar].

5. Orang Alim yang khusyuk.

6. Orang mukmin yang suka menasihati.

7. Orang mukmin yang murah hati (belas kasih).

8. Orang yang bertaubat dan tetap pada taubatnya.

9. Orang yang menjauh dari segala yang haram.

10. Orang yang tetap berwudhu {apabila batal sentiasa diperbaharui dengan wudhu yang lain).

11. Orang mukmin yang banyak bersedekah.

12. Orang mukmin yang baik budi akhlaqnya.

13. Orang mukmin yang banyak jasa gunanya pada manusia.

14. Orang yang membawa Al-Qur'an dan selalu membacanya.

15. Orang yang suka sembahyang tahajjud malam di waktu orang-orang sedang tidur.

Lalu ditanya oleh Nabi SAW.; "Siapakah kawan-kawanmu dari umatku?".

Jawab iblis; "Sepuluh orang".

1. Raja(pemerintah) yang zalim..

2. Orang kaya yang sombong.

3. Peniaga yang khianat(penipu).

4. Pemabuk (Peminum arak).

5. Tukang adu domba (fitnah).

6. Pelacur.

7. Pemakan harta anak yatim.

8. Orang yang meremehkan sembahyang.

9. Penolak zakat (tidak mengeluarkan zakat).

10. Orang yang panjang angan-angan.

Mereka itulah sahabat-sahabatku.

Iblis berkata: "Oleh kerana Engkau (wahai Tuhan) menyebabkan daku tersesat (maka) demi sesungguhnya aku akan mengambil tempat menghalangi mereka (dari menjalani) jalanMu yang lurus. [Al-Araaf : 16]

Who said a housewife is always jobless?

Everyone should know by now that i'm a housewife. I am happy with my 'job' but at times its not easy as you think like all you do is take care of your kids ad do the house chores. 

Babies

• My daughter is giving me a hard time chasing her here and there. As difficult as I want her to be in a safe environment, my husband is making it difficult. Anakku ani tau membuka almari apa and there's batteries with whatever acids or alkali whatever and anakku ani semua ke mulut. sigh. then on the other almari.. there will be minute screws and screwdrivers. Then I am he one yang berabut sama anakku mencari apa di ambilnya.
• Despite of having enough sleep (inda jua kan meniadakan ah..), sometimes i fell asleep while she is wide awake pasal ia tidur sudah for 3 hours (pagi tu. she doesn't usually tidur petang lagi now). its easy to wake up subuh when the babies is smaller.. its expected and mostly it'll be twice saja subuh atu. but now.. i woke up frequently more than 2 times sudahnya basar ani. I think the other mothers langsung nada bangun subuh lagi by now. Berat mulut kan becakap minta tolong arah husband ani.. imagine me with 2 kids since i'm carrying my second one.. aku jua kan bangun subuh 5 kali? baik dibawa adang. 
• You know the feelings when you are pregnant, you want specialty and kana manjakan? I guess that's what i'm going thru now. sensitive is part of pregnancy and it sucks much. not that I want to be bitter myself a*****e

House Chores

• House chores never disappear! badly that I need maid.. there's so much thing to consider financially, socially and mentally. sigh. Apologize in advance to siapa2 that its my NEEDS to let my sibs sleepover at my place every weekends to help me out with chores. I still couldn't do it alone.. not that i'm not capable. I need someone to eye on Qisya. When she is big enough.. insyaAllah doing the chores won't be that much problem. 
• When I start doing chores.. you'll listen that i will complain sakit punggung sakit kepala tia.. aku pun sasak. but seriously, it tires me. just to shower Qisya, I have to undergo the killing sakit punggung everytime. if i'm not in my pregnancy state.. I won't be complaining this much because sakit punggung occurs frequently now when i'm pregnant. sigh. kan beurut betian ani nada jua orang mau. sudah ada yang kan mengurut.. ada2 saja hal nda jadi atu. mudah ku malas nah. 

ETIKA BERPAKAIAN BAGI WANITA ISLAM

Etika berpakaian bagi wanita islam
ALLAH SWT MENGHENDAKI AGAR WANITA ISLAM BERPAKAIAN SESUAI DENGAN FUNGSINYA, YAITU FUNGSI PAKAIAN YANG DIKEHENDAKI ALLAH SWT

Allah SWT berfirman:
“Hai anak Adam, sesungguhnya kami telah menurunkan kepadamu pakaian untuk menutupi auratmu dan pakaian indah untuk perhiasan. Dan pakaian takwa, itulah yang paling baik. Yang demikian itu adalah sebagian dari tanda-tanda kekuasaan Allah, mudah mudahan mereka selalu ingat. Hai anak Adam, janganlah sekali-kali kamu dapat ditipu oleh syaithon sebagaimana ia telah mengeluarkan kedua ibu bapakmu dari surga, ia menanggalkan kedua pakaiannya untuk memperhatikan kepada keduanya auratnya. Sesungguhnya ia dan pengikut-pengikutnya melihat kamu dari suatu tempat yang kamu tidak bisa melihat mereka. Sesungguhnya kami telah menjadikan syaithon-syaithon itu pemimpin-pemimpin bagi orang-orang yang tidak beriman.”(QS.Al A’raaf,7:26-27)


::: FUNGSI PAKAIAN :::
Dalam QS Al-A’raf ayat 26-27 nampak disitu ada 3 fungsi pakaian:
1. Sebagai penutup aurat
2. Sebagai pelindung dan penghias tubuh
3. Sebagai pakaian ketaqwaan
Allah SWT menghendaki agar pakaian yang dikenakan kaum muslimah adlah pakaian yang beradab. Yaitu pakaian yang memenuhi ketiga fungsinya.

:: [1] Sebagai penutup aurat
:: 1 ~ Aurat adalah bagian dari tubuhmu yang harus ditutupi . Ibnu Mahram berkata: Saya membawa batu yang berat dan saya membawanya hingga terengah-engah sampai-sampai pakaian saya terbuka dan saya tidak dapat menutupinya, lalu saya membawa batu tersebut hingga ke suatu tempat dimana saya menurunkannya, Rosulullah saw. Bersabda :”Kembalilah dan bawa batu itu tapi jangan berjalan dengan telanjang”. (Muslim 341, Abu Dawud 4016)

:: 2~ Allah berfirman agar kaum wanita mengenakan Jilbab (pakaian yang menutup auratnya): “Hai Nabi katakanlah kepada isteri-isterimu, anak-anak perempuanmu dan isteri-isteri orang mumin: Hendaklah mereka mengulurkan jilbabnya ke seluruh tubuh mereka. Yang demikian itu supaya mereka lebih mudah untuk dikenal, karena itu mereka tidak diganggu. Dan Allah adalah Maha Pengampun lagi Maha Penyayang” (QS. 33:59)

:: 3 ~ Allah berfirman agar kaum wanita mengulurkan kerudungnya hingga menutupi leher dan dadanya, jangan sampai , pakaian wanita itu tidak menutup rapat anggota tubuh yang semestinya ditutup: Katakanlah kepada wanita yang beriman: Hendaklah mereka menahan pandangan mereka, dan memelihara kemaluan mereka, dan janganlah mereka menampakkan perhiasan mereka kecuali yang (biasa) nampak dari mereka. Dan hendaklah mereka menutupkan kain kudung kedada mereka, dan janganlah menampakkan perhiasan mereka, kecuali kepada suami mereka, atau ayah mereka, atau ayah suami mereka, atau putera-putera mereka, atau putera-putera suami mereka, atau saudara-saudara mereka, atau putera-putera saudara laki-laki mereka, atau putera-putera saudara perempuan mereka, atau wanita-wanita Islam, atau budak-budak yang mereka miliki atau pelayan-pelayan laki-laki yang tidak mempunyai keinginan (terhadap wanita) atau anak-anak yang belum mengerti tentang aurat wanita. Dan janganlah mereka memukulkan kaki mereka agar diketahui perhiasan yang mereka sembunyikan. Dan bertaubatlah kepada Allah, hai orang-orang yang beriman supaya kamu beruntung. (QS. 24:31)

:: 4 ~ Adapun aurat wanita itu adalah seluruh tubuhnya kecuali muka dan telapak tangannya. Hadis riwayat Aisyah RA, bahwasanya Asma binti Abu Bakar masuk menjumpai Rasululloh SAW dengan pakaian yang tipis, lantas Rasululloh SAW berpaling darinya dan berkata:"Hai Asma, seseungguhnya jika seorang wanita sudah mencapai usia haid (akil baligh) maka tak ada yang layak terlihat kecuali ini," sambil beliau menunjuk wajah dan telapak tangan. (HR. Abu Daud dan Baihaqi).

::5 ~ Termasuk membuka auratnya jika wanita itu memakai baju tipis / transparan dan atau ketat membentuk tubuh. Sebab baju tipis atau ketat :”membentuk tubuh”, sama dengan berpakaian tapi telanjang. Rasulullah bersabda: "Ada dua golongan penghuni neraka yang aku belum pernah melihatnya: Laki-laki yang tangan mereka menggenggam cambuk yang mrip ekor sapi untk memukuli orang lain dan wanita-wanita yang berpakaian namun telanjang dan berlenggak lenggok. Kepalanya bergoyang-goyang bak punuk onta. Mereka itu tidak masuk surga dan tidak pula mencium baunya. Padahal sesungguhnya bau surga itu bisa tercium dari jarak sekian dan sekian." (HR. Muslim).
Rasulullah telah bersabda : "Pada akhir umatku nanti akan ada wanita-wanita yang berpakain namun (hakekatnya) telanjang. Di atas kepala mereka seperti terdapat bongkol (punuk) unta. Kutuklah mereka karena sebenarnya mereka adalah kaum wanita yang terkutuk." Di dalam hadits lain terdapat tambahan : "Mereka tidak akan masuk surga dan juga tidak akan mencium baunya, padahal baunya surga itu dapat dicium dari perjalanan sekian dan sekian." (At-Thabrani dalam Al-Mujam As-Shaghir hal. 232; Hadits lain tersebut dikeluarkan oleh Muslim dari riwayat Abu Hurairah. Lihat Al-HAdits As-Shahihah no. 1326).

Ibnu Abdil Barr berkata : Yang dimaksud oleh Nabi adalah kaum wanita yang mengenakan pakaian yang tipis, yang dapat mensifati (menggambarkan) bentuk tubuhnya dan tidak dapat menutup atau menyembunyikannya. Mereka itu
tetap berpakaian namanya, akan tetapi hakekatnya telanjang. (dikutip oleh As-Suyuthi dalam Tanwirul Hawalik III/103).

:: [2] Sebagai pelindung badan dan penghias tubuh
:: 1 ~ Dalam QS Al-A’raf dikatakan bahwa fungsi kedua pakaian itu adalah “Riesyan”. Riesy adalah bulu pada burung. Bulu pada burung memiliki fungsi sebagai pelintung dan juga penghias tubuhnya.

::2 ~ Rasulullah SAW menghendaki agar memakai pakaian yang baru (baik dan indah) yang dia punya. Dalam salah satu riwayat disebutkan: “ Saya datang kepada Rosulullah saw. dengan mengenakan pakaian yang lama, Beliau bersabda, : ”Apakah kamu memiliki harta dan uang?”Dia menjawab,”Ya” Beliau saw. bertanya,”Apakah macam dari hartamu itu?” Dia menjawab,”Allah swt. telah memberikan kepadaku unta-unta, kambing, kuda dan hamba sahaya”.”Jika Allah telah memberikan itu, maka perlihatkanlah, kebaikan-kebaikan itu supaya dapat dilihat oleh Allah dan orang-orang yang melihatnya”.(Abu Dawud 4063), Albaani 5457, Musnad Imam Ahmad 15223).

::3 ~ Allah menghendaki agar mengenakan pakaian yang indah yang dipunyai. Allah SWT berfirman:
“Hai anak Adam, pakailah pakaianmu yang indah di setiap (memasuki) masjid”.(QS.Al A’raaf,7:31)
:: 4 ~ tetapi, walaupun mengenakan pakaian indah, tetapi tetaplah menghindari berpakaian yang menyolok , yang dengannya akan mengundang fitnah kaum lelaki “hidung belang”. Rosulullah saw. Bersabda : ”Siapa saja yang mengenakan pakaian yang membikin heboh di dunia, maka Allah akan memberinya pakaian yang menghinakan kelak di hari kiamat”.(Musnad Imam Ahmad 5631, Abu Dawud 4029)

:: 5 ~ Walaupun hendak memakai pakaian yang indah, tetapi rasulullah melarang pakaian tersebut menyerupai laki laki. Rasulullah melaknat laki-laki yang bertingkah laku seperti wanita dan wanita
yang bertingkah laku seperti laki-laki (HR,Abu Dawud,Ahmad).

:: 6 ~ Hendaklah pula erpakaian indah tanpa bermaksud sombong. Abu Hurairah meriwayatkan, Rosulullah saw. bersabda, : ”Seseorang yang berjalan dengan berpakaian secara sombong dimuka bumi ini maka Allah tidak akan melihatnya di hari pengadilan kelak”.(Bukhori 5788, Muslim 2087, Musnad Imam Ahmad 8778).

:: [2] Sebagai Pakaian taqwa
:: 1 ~ Walaupun sudah menutupi auratnya dan melindungi serta menghiasi tubuh, tetapsaja belum cukup memenuhi fungsi pakaian menurut Allah, jika tidak berpakaian taqwa

:: 2 ~ Berpakaian taqwa artinya, wanita Islam mesti memiliki jiwa taqwa. Yaitu jiwa yang taat kepada Allah dan Rasulnya. Sebab menjadi kurang bermakna jika wanita Islam yang lengkap berpakaian rapih, indah dan menutupi aurat tetapi , mata, telinga, mulut dan hatinya tidak dijaga dari perbuatan dosa.

Marriage

Hello blog,

been so long. Here I just wanna share something out of the mind. 

Marriage? What is marriage to you? Some will say married to the person that you love. Some will say marry to the guy that you've been going out with.. and married to the family as well. Definition of marriage to each people is different I guess. To me.. marriage means menghalalkan your relationships and produce kids by then. 

Fact 1: Firstly i'm glad that between me and my husband is halal now. I get satisfaction by that... the idea of holding your husband's hand is no longer haram is the best feelings ever. I am thankful that I got married early. Early marriage means your parents no longer holds your responsibility especially regarding aurat and sembahyang. am I right? 

Fact 2: Accept the fact that it'll be hard and darn difficult for each of you to satisfy your in-laws. Sometimes you just want to give up and lock yourself in your room. Some of you might have the best in-laws ever.. that's incredibly great. but for some.. it won't go as you imagine. For ladies.. when you are married already.. you have to give priority to your in-laws. I have to admit its difficult. 

Fact 3: Just after your marriage.. GET OUT from your parents' crib! and find yourself a home for you and your husband and your underlings. Why? No one would know your behaviour especially imperfect ones! Means no one will hunt you other than your husband. Why do you need parents to scold you when you are big enough now. not fun at all. Another reason is.. so that families won't "mengata" about you to the other people. This thing exists! 

Fact 4: Don't expect everything will turn out well even it looks like it. When you do, you'll find frigging news that could attack you up to your nerves. heh. Sometimes things goes well with you.. but not between the families (your families and your husband's families). 

Fact 5: Never forget who you are before you marry this guy! because when you do, you'll lose the fun in your relationships.

Fact 6: Always remember who is the KING OF YOUR HOUSE. and who is the QUEEN OF THE HOUSE. It means the husband will be the king and the wife will be the queen obviously. Whenever you feel down when someone's around and you feel "limited".. try not to. You have all the rights to intervene and get in control in your own house. When someone said something about your house etc.. just remember that "its our  house" - this is what my husband said to me and it makes me feel better eventhough its out of control.

Fact 7: Don't let your parents or in-laws babysit your children most of the time. You'll find dissatisfaction and inequality hit you. Plus I always have this problem that what you do whether its wrong or right.. my kids will follow. if its the good thing.. then lucky you. but if its the bad thing.. what else can you say? its your mistake at the first place! Another reason.. you hate to hear when they 'merungut' about it right? so please.. get a maid or better one.. you take care of your own kids. I'm thankful i'm a housewife not just because I couldn't get a job yet.. but its what my husband wants as for now. 

Fact 8: Don't let other family members let you do things that you don't want. You may not be selfish.. but others are selfish. Remember that! Hidup di dunia ani sentiasa ada memijak kepala walaupun sedarah sedaging. My father doesn't come from what i call "perfect family" but for my mother.. she was taught with a well-educated in religion and somehow her world is small. This imperfect family of my father sometimes gave this whole idea of world especially regarding something that makes you 'jara'. My father said to me once.. "kalau hati sudah kata inda mau menolong.. jangan tolong. pasal inda mau hujung hari bebangkit" - eventhough to your siblings. 

Here are my definition of marriage in details people. Don't be scared to get married by reading my post.. its the adventure that we want and rezeki untuk mendapatkan zuriat is the important thing. Zuriat yang ada.. teach them not just for duniawi.. but ukhrawi. my father selalu kata "sembahyang jangan pernah tinggal. tiang ugama mesti buat insyaAllah rumahtangga tahan". You don't want to tanggung dosa sendiri.. and tambah lagi dengan dosa anak yang kita tanggung right? think about it. 

March Updates

Hello Peepoooosss... i've been neglecting this blog like.. since November. hehehe. i guess i'm bored to death tonight. Qisya is asleep and my parents is outside watching TV and I don't have the chance to get hold of the remote control.. might as well locking myself in the bedroom staring at my laptop monitor. eheh.

So what am I up to? have I mentioned that i've finished my attachment already and i'm a housewifeeeeee.. hehe. yea.. although I did apply for ITB to further my study.. Husband is being supportive and thank you. I know it'll be hard taking care of my child and doing assignments and attending classes and idk.. i just hope and wish everything will be fine in the next few years. amin amin ya rabbal alamin.

About my daughter.. she is 4 months and 10 days.. she babbles alot. and alot of drooling. alot of everything.. she can get on her tummy already by herself.. she responds to my funny faces and sound.. her laugh is the cure to everything. that voice of her melts me :) Mummy loves you Qisya. and ohh.. she rarely woke up at night nowadays and yeay to me.. hehehe. i'll upload Qisya's pictures next time.. most of the pictures is in my husband's desktop.

i've been wanting to have a new laptop.. i don't know what the f*** is wrong with my macbook. the dock is missing and i've checked the settings and its perfect. my safari is officially dead and not working and i thought its our wifi.. and i've to use the firefox now on my macbook.. nice. so nice. guess what's in my mind? hehehe.



*drool*

speaking of me.. sometimes i'm not in the right state of my stupid mind.. i have to apologize to the husband.. sorry husband.. and do not talk about this to me. eheh. i know i shouldn't be asking more of the useless and stupid questions but somehow it just slipped and i don't like it either. and sometimes it tickles me to ask those stupid questions. i love you.. and happy anniversary :) our last anniversary sucks though. hehehe.

help me more with the house chores pls.. hahaha. you lazybum. do wake up early now. and sleep early. and.. the things that i kept on reminding you.. you know what it is. it'll be an embarassment to say it here :p we do it together ahh? :)

and to NORLIYANA ABBA.. who i doubt will not read my blog.. (idk) Happy Birthday.. best wishes from your A-Z :)

Anniversary is coming soon.

I was busy downloading songs yesterday.. I manage to have more than 10 new songs. hehehe. and I came across "Two is better than one" by Boys like Girls ft Taylor Swift. Its pretty good actually and well.. reminds me of my old times. eheh.

There's no official video clips but here's the lyrics and the songs as well. I hope you guys like it and enjoy the song :) as for me.. 3 is better than 2. hehe.

funny story.. you know that Eyan used to call me Baby and still at times. and last night just before sleep.. he said "me balum kiss baby" I thought it was me he is talking about. Thankfully I asked baby mana ne ah? hahahaha. I'm the big baby now. LOL.

Eyan.. Happy Advance 41st Anniversary. wow.. BIG 4 eyy? I pray for the eternity relationship and the best in us and avoid us from doing faulty and be a good parents. Amin Amin Ya Rabbal Alamin. I love you both. I really hope whatever around us is teaching us a lesson and also from our past.

Paranormal Activity

F*** Paranormal Activity! and thank God its not a REAL STORY. well.. those thing does exist but people spreading the rumours that the movie is a true story itself is idk.. a prank? ceh. Tried google-ing it just now.

Taken from Wikipedia:-

Paranormal Activity is a 2007 horror film written and directed by Oren Peli. The movie centers on a young couple, Katie and Micah, who are haunted by a supernatural presence in their home. The movie is presented in a documentary style, using footage from the camera set up by the couple to capture what is haunting them.

Armed with a budget of $15,000. The film was shot at the director's old house in Rancho Peñasquitos, an upscale suburb of San Diego. Peli went as far as changing the floor boards and interior design elements to fit the film's setting.

"Good Luck Sleep" hehehe.

So yea. The movie terrified me badly during dawn especially when I have to wake up to attend my baby.. twice usually at 1am and 4am. heh. Every single "scaretime" moment in the movie is playing in my mind bangun ku ah. membari gila. but now I should be fine. lol. You people should try watching it. hehe. Introduction is abit boring but as it goes further.. it'll be crazier and feels like homicide. exaggerate. haha.

So i'm a mommy now. btw, baby's name is Qisya Insyirah. I gathered all the beautiful names and Husband's work is to combine the names. hehe. She is 18 days of age now - consume milk for 3oz already.. that soon eyy. lampuh tah ne karang. hehe.

I'm glad that I have her.. ALTHOUGHHHHH.... i have to wake up twice during subuh. still she's cute when ia bejaga masa subuh.. badly i wanna go back to sleep asap when she's bejaga and diam2 saja.. I can't cuz I can't stop staring at her. so cute. lol. She has the hair of the father.. and his eyebrow.. and his eyelashes. but she has my feet.. hahaha. my ears as well i guess.